Tuesday, August 28, 2007

Baby's room

The "nursery" (what do you call it when the child may be a toddler?) is nearly ready!

I spent last weekend wallpapering the room, which was a bigger job than I'd expected. 4 trips to the hardware store (and 3 of those were just to track down the seam roller!), and 4 bloody finger incidences (who knew wallpapering was such a risky activity!?), the job is done.

We chose a butterfly theme for the room because it seems a perfect symbol of our journey in so many ways -- rebirth for us from the difficulties of infertility treatments, and rebirth for our little girl from her birth family into ours. We are all new creations through this journey.


The furniture all has a story -- the crib was originally purchased for my nephew, Joseph, 14 years ago! It's since seen him and 3 other children, including our son Jason through their baby years. The armoir has been in babies rooms for longer than that! I believe it came into our family when my youngest brother was born, 35 years ago. The daybed was one of my first furniture purchases when I graduated from college and set up house on my own.
(The bedspread will be replaced by the 100 good wishes quilt when it's complete!)











Although the room needs a few more accessories (I've been on the lookout for a clock, and can't find one I like yet!), those that are up are special to me. The quilt was made by my mother-in-law, master quilter of Ohio! It's a design of her own, called Princess and the Pea. I made the mosaic cross (hanging between the windows) at a church craft night last Spring. There is a mosaic butterfly at the intersection of the cross beams.










My mom and I spend a day last Spring recovering the rocking chair pads. The rocking chair also originated in 1993 (note the trendy pink-wash stain!), as it matched the crib. It's logged many hours of rocking and reading time, and is incredibly comfortable. My mother-in-law sweetly purchased the fabric -- I totally fell in love with the quilted fabric, and it worked out perfectly for the room!

Adoption timeline

Paul and I decided to pursue a county adoption in July of 2006. Here's what's happened since then:

Fall '06 - completed PRIDE training (7), submitted application, received our letters of recommendation (thanks!), were fingerprinted the 1st time (for adoption system), got medical exams, started meeting with Social Worker.

Spring '07 - completed Bridgebuilders classes (9), completed Social Worker interviews, fingerprinted 2nd time (for Foster system).

April 20, 2007 -- a key date - we are final and on the county's "Waiting Families" list

wait

wait

July 6, 2007 - heard from our Social worker that families who went on the list in January were getting their matches! So it looks like we might be about 3 months out? It all depends on the unpredictable nature of how kids come into the system and how they match up with the families on the list.

100 Good Wishes Quilt

100 Good Wishes Quilt

(The picture of the quilt on the left is the template I'm copying for the one I'm making -- it will be big enough for a twin bedspread when I'm done!)

The tradition of the 100 Good Wishes Quilt dates back to ancient China where the tradition welcomed a new baby to the family. Friends and family donated fabric scraps along with a wish of good fortune for the baby. The mother then made a quilt from the scraps … and many believed that the good wishes and love from all the families surrounded the child wrapped in that quilt.

We are hoping you might participate in this project. We love the idea of welcoming our daughter into our home with a quilt that represents the good wishes you are all sending her way, and for her to someday see how much she was wanted and thought about even before she came into our family.

Here is how it works:
1. Choose any 100% cotton fabric that you like. It can be from a fabric store or from a piece of clothing. It can be any design and color that you like (but please avoid stretchy fabrics like t-shirts).
2. Cut one 8" x 8" square from the fabric, plus a scrap (at least 1”X1”) to attach to your wish.
3. Include your "good wish note" on one side of a piece of paper or card no larger than 4”X6”. Be sure to glue your fabric scrap to the front side of the wish. We will place all the wishes in a scrapbook so she can look at the book and see where each square of the quilt came from.

Ideas for selecting fabric squares:
*Select a fabric that is meaningful to you - something that you particularly like
*100% cotton fabric please!
*If there are several members in your family, please feel free to send more than 1 set of fabric. It would be so special to include good wishes from all members of your family!!

Ideas for good wishes note:
*What is your prayer or wish for our child to have in her life?
*Share your words of wisdom, or consider a poem, a quote, or a bible verse.
*It can be as long or as short as you like.
*Be sure to put your name(s) on the wish.

We hope to create something for our daughter that will be incredibly meaningful to her. We look forward to hearing from you!